There are things that I really enjoy… like music, and bicycle-riding, and writing… But I haven’t given myself the time or space to think that out, and begin to work towards something.
Something I maybe didn’t understand as a 20 year old who wanted to be a cartoonist — telling stories takes a lot of work. You have to really practice it. Some of us are better than others, but you really have to hone that.
At this age, I think I have a lot of capacity to be able to start something… to write about the culture, contributing to conversations around human-centered design, things that work for people, the ethics of it. It’s not like I have to start from scratch on something, as I have 30 years of work… but I haven’t given myself the time to think and work towards what my creative outlet may become.
Right now I’m taking care of my work and my family, and then taking care of myself — which, for me, is bike camping. Loading up my bike, going out in nature and camping. Between the life of work, family, and all that that asks… I try to preserve some time and space for taking care of myself.
And you don’t need much to do that. A couple of weeks ago, one of my friends hopped on his bicycle, took the the train to Irvine, rode up to Crystal Cove, and came back down the coast. I left work at 4pm, rode my bike to meet him. We camped, and I got home the next day at 1pm. It’s a sub-24 hour trip.
If you want to get out into nature, you don’t have to drive six hours to some destination like Mammoth or the Eastern Sierra. You don’t need to go for a whole week. We’re lucky here in Southern California — we have the ocean. When you jump in the ocean, you are in wilderness. Even just jumping in the water, let the swells lift you up and down can be really wonderful. If folks don’t have too much nature near them… even sitting under a tree and watching the birds… I’d imagine an hour of doing that could maybe be just as good as dipping in the water or doing an overnight camping trip.
For me, though, I love a sub-24 hour overnight trip. If you use bicycle, bus or train…. You can get kind of far. You can get into nature — a nearby county park, BLM land — find a campground, bring a flask, coffee grinder and camp stove, sleep there, make your coffee in the morning, and then come home! You can leave after work and get back after breakfast.
For me, that’s my reset. So… however I figure out my next creative outlet, it’s going to have to fit between myself, my family and riding bikes.
I guess the word now is self-care. For me, it’s about taking care of yourself so that you’re okay, so that you can take care of others and give of yourself.